Sometimes It Doesn't Take Much

Waiting for clearance to have sex after giving birth sucks.  Waiting for clearance in the beginning of Spring doubly sucks.  Waiting for clearance at the beginning of Spring while being home together is just down right impossible.  So what to do then?

Last night Harry eased his way behind me as I laid in bed.  It began with light touches and gentile strokes while we kissed passionately in the spoon position.  I grabbed Harry's cock in my hand and stroked him concentrating more on providing tension to the shaft than long strokes since there was no lubrication.  When Harry placed himself between my thighs I slightly rebuked him thinking that he was going to enter my lady chamber and although I am almost at the point of saying to hell with the doctors, I still remain cautious.  He quietly shushed me and fitted his penis between my thighs and close to my clitoris.  As he slowly began rocking against me he wrapped forearm against my throat and his other tightly across my milk oozing breasts.  

It did not take long and soon we came in a cacophony of moans.

Sometimes it just doesn't take much!

The Love Debate

  Last night Harry's lover came by to hang out.  Just like it has been awhile since we have posted it has also been awhile since either of us have had a chance to play.  I have to admit that although I am gradually feeling better about Harry's toy I often have to remind myself to be nice to him because I find him rather dull.  And overdone in bed... You know the lover who is always making extra noise when you really just want to them to shut up and get fucked... Well that's him.  Being the considerate man that he is Harry recently purchased a mouth strap on to remedy that problem.  I will let you know how that goes.
  What I want to talk about however, is the look of love that covers the toys face every time my husband walks in to the room.  He tracks him with his eyes, he gets all mushy and soft.  I've said it before I can be a little bit of a bitch but honestly it makes me want to slap the smitten look off his face.  Harry contends that it is not a look of love however a look of lust.  Ha.... Lust doesn't make you look like a forlorn puppy.  It is hot, its intense, it is take your pants off so I can suck your cock right now.  Lust is not I would settle to have a hug and hold your hand while watch movies.  Here in lies the debate!

Miss Kitty's at the Dragonfly

Ha, I don't know exactly what to say about Miss Kitty's come back to LA party.  I have only been to one of her parties before and that was a night that I was really sick.  I can say that I was thoroughly entertained!  Everyone around me seemed to be having a lot of fun.  I had the strange feeling of walking into a den of Nerds and Freaks in costume though.  I think that Miss Kitty and us were the coolest people in attendance.

The music was good and the drink prices were fair, but I could have debauched most of the crowd.  Also I am probably a little bitter because I fell in love with a beautiful submissive woman in a mask, to find out later that she was a unattractive clumsy Dom man. (only in my life)  But I did see a woman give head to a guy in the booth behind us, so I stopped being bitter pretty quickly and became more entertained.

The Great Pussy Eating Debate

My arm didn't really have to be twisted into this discussion.  Without a whole lot of pomp and circumstance I will say first and foremost that just like kissing, girls have pussy eating down pat.  Why?  They pay more attention to what is making their partner happy, they are gentle when they need to be gentle and rough when the need to be rough.  I also think that they tend to produce more saliva.  

I am in very much the same boat as my husband though as I have worked very hard with him in order to get it perfect with him.  He worships eating my pussy and takes his cues well when I am sitting on his face.  Most men however do not know what they are doing.  He always laughs when he watches another man have a go at it, "you didn't get any pleasure from that did you?" 

There have been exceptions like a certain married man we dealt with, but his wife's sexual energy and desires not to mention build were almost identical to mine so I am sure that he had lots of practice, it also helped that he showed so much delight in making me orgasm.  But again my husband and this other woman's husband were exception's.

First is never just blow on the pussy.  And practice makes perfect ;0)

Cherry

The Great Cock Sucking Debate

Who does it better guys or girls?

This has been debated in several circles and is even the topic/subject matter of many porn flicks, although that's not saying much, since what isn't a topic in porn these days.

So after much thought I decided to post my opinion.  Why, you say?  Well being bi and having had the experience of having my cock sucked by men and women I feel it is my duty to weigh in on the matter.

Now if you have read this blog before, you know that I am married to a bi girl. I will convince her to write her own opinion on the who eats pussy better debate. (Although I don't think it's much of a debate as women seem to think hands down women do it better)  But I will convince her to tell her story anyway so this blog has both.

On to the fellatio comparison!!!

Being in my early 30's and having my first sexual experience fairly young at the tender age of 15. I have had over 15 years of having my cock sucked.  Every girl I have ever been with/fucked  has given me head and a few others that I didn't even fuck who were just dying to get a piece of me for some reason and settled for sucking my cock when I refused to fuck them lol.  The funny thing about being with guys is that they seem more into sucking cock just for the sake of doing it where as girls for the most part only do it when you are working towards sex.  Because of this I think I have actually probably had more guys suck my cock than girls since accepting that I was bi.

Over the years I have only had two girls who really enjoyed sucking cock and I married one of them.  And no I didn't marry her because she loves it, but it sure is a fucking bonus.

I will tell you now that for me, if a girl doesn't get off on sucking cock I will not even cum.  She can suck it for a fucking hour till her jaw aches and I will not cum.  Maybe that's just me but that's been my experience.  Outside of my wife I have yet to experience a girl who works my cock to the point of me cumming and leaves me with a body shaking orgasm.

Why is her's so good and the rest of the girls so blah?  Not really sure, I can't put my finger on it outside of the fact that she is doing it for herself not for me.  It makes a huge difference, when she gets into and is moaning because she is enjoying it and I can tell when her mouth is working on my cock that she loves the taste and just wants to suck me till I cum in her mouth.  I'm actually getting hard as I type this and think about it.  She get's it really wet, works the shaft, my balls, and never runs her teeth over it.  It's an amazing experience.  The only downside I would say is that she really can't deep throat repeatedly and face fucking is very rare, but other than that all pluses.  If I was judging girls by the example my wife set's in the cock sucking department the girls would have it.

Unfortunately my wife is very rare in a number of ways so she can't bring it home for the girls.  If I was judging sheer number comparison, all the other girls I have been with, give lack luster blowjobs, most are hardly even worth mentioning or remembering.  It just seems that they are either to afraid to slut out on that cock or maybe they just don't like the taste either way it seems the other girls are just not up to par.  Very forgettable experiences as a whole.

Guy's as I've said before, hands down want to suck cock.  For some, want isn't even the proper word, more like need to suck cock would be better.  Still there are a few stand out qualities that it seems all guy's I have been with share that women in general lack.  The biggest is the ability to deep throat.  Now I'm not a small man, my cock is a solid 8in and pretty thick, enough for more than a mouth/throat full for a man or woman. But hands down 4 out of 5 guys can and will take my cock till they choke on it(a lot don't) and come up asking(the good ones begging) for more.  They also enjoy a bit of rougher play which I enjoy.  From cock slapping, to all out face/throat fucking.  I mean the kind you see in porn, head against the wall, or over the side of the bed throat fucking. 

It's also worth noting that guys will do it without caring if you fuck them or suck them back, all they want is that cock in their mouth and there is something appealing to that in a very selfish way.

So what's this mean in the great debate?  Guys or Girls?

Let's put it like this. 

If you want mouth watering head anyone who loves to do it is going to be the best at it.  Whether guy or girl.

However if you want a varied sucking experience that includes hardcore sucking, I give it to the guys that love the cock.

AND THAT'S WHAT'S UP!

The Good Girl

Why is it that women think that they can make good porn for us women.  I mean, I'm sure there are things that get everyone off, but I would consider The Good Girl fetish porn.  Porn for people who like really bad music and want to be bored during sex.  Twenty minutes turned into an eternity after the first six minutes.  I don't mean to be mean, I never do, but really.  How horrible were those accents and the point of porn is.... dum dum dummm... Sex.  Dirty, grimy kinda beautiful sex.  Not seventeen minutes of grinding with him mainly dressed and three minutes too long of milky white nothing very exciting.
Just saying, Erica Lust should see a sex therapist.  She has major not sexy enough issues and society boosting her ego to quickly has led to unsatisfying  porn movies.

High Heels

I have a firm belief that if you are having sex standing up you should wear high heels.  I just do not believe that flat footed against a door allows for the best angles to be hit.  It seems to me that instead the cock pops out and leads to a certain level of dissatisfaction.  In conjunction to this line of thinking, as a woman when I look down at my toes I see a perfect line of sexy that is not present when I do not have that extra boost.  My thighs look better, my breasts look better and I generally feel hot when I am in heels.  I'm just saying!

If you're a sadist and you know it clap your hands

I'm a sadist and I know it.

For years I wondered why I would get hard when Cherry would cry or become upset.  After I went to my first real bondage and s/m party in 2008 it all started to come into focus.  It was there that I realized I don't just like to watch others in various forms of discomfort but I revel in it.   However, I do enjoy a particular kind of sadistic play and that's prolonged sessions of pleasure mixed with sensory deprivation and pain.  I love to bind and leave them waiting, to get close to them and inhale their scent, to watch them shake with fear and anticipation to what I will do first.

I also have a major thing for spanking.  I mean serious over the knee spanking or even punishment with my trustworthy riding crop.  Nothing beats the sound of leather on supple flesh except perhaps the sound of wood.

Which makes being married to Cherry awesome as she has a masochistic streak in her and although it's not as strong as I would like, I'm allowed other human play toys to take out my desires on.  Which is doubly fun as she can be very sadistic to those with a sub mentality since she knows what that mindset is like from first hand experience.  I have seen her punch and beat on the chest of girls who are tied up to our bedposts, and finger fuck guys' ass till they moaned in mix of pleasure and agony.

I have made sub guys watch with anal plugs in their ass while I fuck hers while not allowing them to touch their cocks, and then afterwards send them home with orders not to jo.

Recently after a  bit of late night of drinking and watching dirty movies, I took her in the bedroom and fucked her ass repeatedly to intense orgasms.  Then put her on her back, got on top of her, and began to fuck her while choking her, squeezing her nose closed and then kissing her and pushing my tongue deep into her mouth for 20-30 seconds.

She convulsed and squirmed, and begged me to cum and I rewarded her of course.

Bar Sinister Los Angeles

Harry and I went out last Saturday night to a place called Bar Sinister.  We had heard that there was going to be a really great Burlesque Dancer performing and thought that it would be hot to check it out.  In my own opinion we have been to several outstanding Fetish- ish parties and this one is not on the hot list.  There were way too many kids and sub attractive people.  See below posts to see how I feel about that.
I saw several plays on domination going on and none of them were compelling.  I want to be stopped and have a intake of breath, instead I stifled several yawns.

The show was great, but almost too short.  The dancer Olivia Bellafontaine that we had come to see was beautiful and fluid.  She was worth the $10 admission.
I only have two more things two rant about....... Why in LA do promoters advertise masquerades when only 1/3 of the attendees wear masks?  And... If you want to take a picture of me that is cool, I dress to be noticed.  But douche bags open your mouth and ask permission first, you are much more likely to get something other than my back.  That is All

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I mean who doesn't know this stereotype, is there anyone who hasn't heard, that black guys have big dicks? I mean I have a big dick and I'm black.  By big I mean larger than average actually much larger than average  as average seems pretty small.  Check link to see what I mean penis size.

In wiki the average is somewhere between 5-6.3 inches in length when fully erect and I'm coming in at a solid 8 and some change.  Giving much credence to the stereotype I might add.

I mean....have you ever wondered...what it must be like..for black guys, who don't have big cocks?
Considering the rampant porn, postings, listings, and overall general stereotype on the subject of  BBC(BIG BLACK COCK)the pressure must be immense for those with average cock pieces.  Heavens to mergatroid if you're weighing in as one of those less than average "bruthas".  Fuck! The deep desire to want to feel like you are a sex god with whoever you are sleeping with seems lined in our male dna.  At least for the males that I personally know, see, and the ones that are written and talked about in damn near every culture on the planet.  Seriously though, who doesn't want to feel that they are either sexually dominating the situation or want to feel like their partners are overly satisfied sexually while being with them.

Imagine though, that with black men, the idea is that we are wild sexual animals, with raging, throbbing, gigantic cocks ready to pulverize pussy, gag windpipes, and tear asses apart, generally leaving you in a sexual cum coma.   Awesome right.  If you're into I guess.  How does it feel though?   For that "brutha" on the shorter than average list.  When he hooks up with his first chick.  There she is all stoked and geared up with thoughts racing in her head of  getting her first look, taste and feel of the mythical Alabama black snake and it turns out to be baby earthworm...Now she is having fits of the giggles and he is sexually scarred for life.

What a fucking let down right.  This is what stereotypes create, it's akin to the myth that all tall black guys are great at basketball.  I for one am a tall black guy but I am not great at basketball, shit I can't even dunk how sad is that.  Digressing though, the point of this post to remind us all that we are people too not just sexual objects.  Yes I have a BBC, and yes I will use it to fuck you into a sex coma, male or female mind you.  But that's not all that I am sexually damn it!!  So keep that in mind when letting your fantasies run rampant.

And yes that is my real cock.