The Great Cock Sucking Debate

Who does it better guys or girls?

This has been debated in several circles and is even the topic/subject matter of many porn flicks, although that's not saying much, since what isn't a topic in porn these days.

So after much thought I decided to post my opinion.  Why, you say?  Well being bi and having had the experience of having my cock sucked by men and women I feel it is my duty to weigh in on the matter.

Now if you have read this blog before, you know that I am married to a bi girl. I will convince her to write her own opinion on the who eats pussy better debate. (Although I don't think it's much of a debate as women seem to think hands down women do it better)  But I will convince her to tell her story anyway so this blog has both.

On to the fellatio comparison!!!

Being in my early 30's and having my first sexual experience fairly young at the tender age of 15. I have had over 15 years of having my cock sucked.  Every girl I have ever been with/fucked  has given me head and a few others that I didn't even fuck who were just dying to get a piece of me for some reason and settled for sucking my cock when I refused to fuck them lol.  The funny thing about being with guys is that they seem more into sucking cock just for the sake of doing it where as girls for the most part only do it when you are working towards sex.  Because of this I think I have actually probably had more guys suck my cock than girls since accepting that I was bi.

Over the years I have only had two girls who really enjoyed sucking cock and I married one of them.  And no I didn't marry her because she loves it, but it sure is a fucking bonus.

I will tell you now that for me, if a girl doesn't get off on sucking cock I will not even cum.  She can suck it for a fucking hour till her jaw aches and I will not cum.  Maybe that's just me but that's been my experience.  Outside of my wife I have yet to experience a girl who works my cock to the point of me cumming and leaves me with a body shaking orgasm.

Why is her's so good and the rest of the girls so blah?  Not really sure, I can't put my finger on it outside of the fact that she is doing it for herself not for me.  It makes a huge difference, when she gets into and is moaning because she is enjoying it and I can tell when her mouth is working on my cock that she loves the taste and just wants to suck me till I cum in her mouth.  I'm actually getting hard as I type this and think about it.  She get's it really wet, works the shaft, my balls, and never runs her teeth over it.  It's an amazing experience.  The only downside I would say is that she really can't deep throat repeatedly and face fucking is very rare, but other than that all pluses.  If I was judging girls by the example my wife set's in the cock sucking department the girls would have it.

Unfortunately my wife is very rare in a number of ways so she can't bring it home for the girls.  If I was judging sheer number comparison, all the other girls I have been with, give lack luster blowjobs, most are hardly even worth mentioning or remembering.  It just seems that they are either to afraid to slut out on that cock or maybe they just don't like the taste either way it seems the other girls are just not up to par.  Very forgettable experiences as a whole.

Guy's as I've said before, hands down want to suck cock.  For some, want isn't even the proper word, more like need to suck cock would be better.  Still there are a few stand out qualities that it seems all guy's I have been with share that women in general lack.  The biggest is the ability to deep throat.  Now I'm not a small man, my cock is a solid 8in and pretty thick, enough for more than a mouth/throat full for a man or woman. But hands down 4 out of 5 guys can and will take my cock till they choke on it(a lot don't) and come up asking(the good ones begging) for more.  They also enjoy a bit of rougher play which I enjoy.  From cock slapping, to all out face/throat fucking.  I mean the kind you see in porn, head against the wall, or over the side of the bed throat fucking. 

It's also worth noting that guys will do it without caring if you fuck them or suck them back, all they want is that cock in their mouth and there is something appealing to that in a very selfish way.

So what's this mean in the great debate?  Guys or Girls?

Let's put it like this. 

If you want mouth watering head anyone who loves to do it is going to be the best at it.  Whether guy or girl.

However if you want a varied sucking experience that includes hardcore sucking, I give it to the guys that love the cock.

AND THAT'S WHAT'S UP!

High Heels

I have a firm belief that if you are having sex standing up you should wear high heels.  I just do not believe that flat footed against a door allows for the best angles to be hit.  It seems to me that instead the cock pops out and leads to a certain level of dissatisfaction.  In conjunction to this line of thinking, as a woman when I look down at my toes I see a perfect line of sexy that is not present when I do not have that extra boost.  My thighs look better, my breasts look better and I generally feel hot when I am in heels.  I'm just saying!

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I mean who doesn't know this stereotype, is there anyone who hasn't heard, that black guys have big dicks? I mean I have a big dick and I'm black.  By big I mean larger than average actually much larger than average  as average seems pretty small.  Check link to see what I mean penis size.

In wiki the average is somewhere between 5-6.3 inches in length when fully erect and I'm coming in at a solid 8 and some change.  Giving much credence to the stereotype I might add.

I mean....have you ever wondered...what it must be like..for black guys, who don't have big cocks?
Considering the rampant porn, postings, listings, and overall general stereotype on the subject of  BBC(BIG BLACK COCK)the pressure must be immense for those with average cock pieces.  Heavens to mergatroid if you're weighing in as one of those less than average "bruthas".  Fuck! The deep desire to want to feel like you are a sex god with whoever you are sleeping with seems lined in our male dna.  At least for the males that I personally know, see, and the ones that are written and talked about in damn near every culture on the planet.  Seriously though, who doesn't want to feel that they are either sexually dominating the situation or want to feel like their partners are overly satisfied sexually while being with them.

Imagine though, that with black men, the idea is that we are wild sexual animals, with raging, throbbing, gigantic cocks ready to pulverize pussy, gag windpipes, and tear asses apart, generally leaving you in a sexual cum coma.   Awesome right.  If you're into I guess.  How does it feel though?   For that "brutha" on the shorter than average list.  When he hooks up with his first chick.  There she is all stoked and geared up with thoughts racing in her head of  getting her first look, taste and feel of the mythical Alabama black snake and it turns out to be baby earthworm...Now she is having fits of the giggles and he is sexually scarred for life.

What a fucking let down right.  This is what stereotypes create, it's akin to the myth that all tall black guys are great at basketball.  I for one am a tall black guy but I am not great at basketball, shit I can't even dunk how sad is that.  Digressing though, the point of this post to remind us all that we are people too not just sexual objects.  Yes I have a BBC, and yes I will use it to fuck you into a sex coma, male or female mind you.  But that's not all that I am sexually damn it!!  So keep that in mind when letting your fantasies run rampant.

And yes that is my real cock.