The Love Debate

  Last night Harry's lover came by to hang out.  Just like it has been awhile since we have posted it has also been awhile since either of us have had a chance to play.  I have to admit that although I am gradually feeling better about Harry's toy I often have to remind myself to be nice to him because I find him rather dull.  And overdone in bed... You know the lover who is always making extra noise when you really just want to them to shut up and get fucked... Well that's him.  Being the considerate man that he is Harry recently purchased a mouth strap on to remedy that problem.  I will let you know how that goes.
  What I want to talk about however, is the look of love that covers the toys face every time my husband walks in to the room.  He tracks him with his eyes, he gets all mushy and soft.  I've said it before I can be a little bit of a bitch but honestly it makes me want to slap the smitten look off his face.  Harry contends that it is not a look of love however a look of lust.  Ha.... Lust doesn't make you look like a forlorn puppy.  It is hot, its intense, it is take your pants off so I can suck your cock right now.  Lust is not I would settle to have a hug and hold your hand while watch movies.  Here in lies the debate!

The Great Cock Sucking Debate

Who does it better guys or girls?

This has been debated in several circles and is even the topic/subject matter of many porn flicks, although that's not saying much, since what isn't a topic in porn these days.

So after much thought I decided to post my opinion.  Why, you say?  Well being bi and having had the experience of having my cock sucked by men and women I feel it is my duty to weigh in on the matter.

Now if you have read this blog before, you know that I am married to a bi girl. I will convince her to write her own opinion on the who eats pussy better debate. (Although I don't think it's much of a debate as women seem to think hands down women do it better)  But I will convince her to tell her story anyway so this blog has both.

On to the fellatio comparison!!!

Being in my early 30's and having my first sexual experience fairly young at the tender age of 15. I have had over 15 years of having my cock sucked.  Every girl I have ever been with/fucked  has given me head and a few others that I didn't even fuck who were just dying to get a piece of me for some reason and settled for sucking my cock when I refused to fuck them lol.  The funny thing about being with guys is that they seem more into sucking cock just for the sake of doing it where as girls for the most part only do it when you are working towards sex.  Because of this I think I have actually probably had more guys suck my cock than girls since accepting that I was bi.

Over the years I have only had two girls who really enjoyed sucking cock and I married one of them.  And no I didn't marry her because she loves it, but it sure is a fucking bonus.

I will tell you now that for me, if a girl doesn't get off on sucking cock I will not even cum.  She can suck it for a fucking hour till her jaw aches and I will not cum.  Maybe that's just me but that's been my experience.  Outside of my wife I have yet to experience a girl who works my cock to the point of me cumming and leaves me with a body shaking orgasm.

Why is her's so good and the rest of the girls so blah?  Not really sure, I can't put my finger on it outside of the fact that she is doing it for herself not for me.  It makes a huge difference, when she gets into and is moaning because she is enjoying it and I can tell when her mouth is working on my cock that she loves the taste and just wants to suck me till I cum in her mouth.  I'm actually getting hard as I type this and think about it.  She get's it really wet, works the shaft, my balls, and never runs her teeth over it.  It's an amazing experience.  The only downside I would say is that she really can't deep throat repeatedly and face fucking is very rare, but other than that all pluses.  If I was judging girls by the example my wife set's in the cock sucking department the girls would have it.

Unfortunately my wife is very rare in a number of ways so she can't bring it home for the girls.  If I was judging sheer number comparison, all the other girls I have been with, give lack luster blowjobs, most are hardly even worth mentioning or remembering.  It just seems that they are either to afraid to slut out on that cock or maybe they just don't like the taste either way it seems the other girls are just not up to par.  Very forgettable experiences as a whole.

Guy's as I've said before, hands down want to suck cock.  For some, want isn't even the proper word, more like need to suck cock would be better.  Still there are a few stand out qualities that it seems all guy's I have been with share that women in general lack.  The biggest is the ability to deep throat.  Now I'm not a small man, my cock is a solid 8in and pretty thick, enough for more than a mouth/throat full for a man or woman. But hands down 4 out of 5 guys can and will take my cock till they choke on it(a lot don't) and come up asking(the good ones begging) for more.  They also enjoy a bit of rougher play which I enjoy.  From cock slapping, to all out face/throat fucking.  I mean the kind you see in porn, head against the wall, or over the side of the bed throat fucking. 

It's also worth noting that guys will do it without caring if you fuck them or suck them back, all they want is that cock in their mouth and there is something appealing to that in a very selfish way.

So what's this mean in the great debate?  Guys or Girls?

Let's put it like this. 

If you want mouth watering head anyone who loves to do it is going to be the best at it.  Whether guy or girl.

However if you want a varied sucking experience that includes hardcore sucking, I give it to the guys that love the cock.

AND THAT'S WHAT'S UP!

If you're a sadist and you know it clap your hands

I'm a sadist and I know it.

For years I wondered why I would get hard when Cherry would cry or become upset.  After I went to my first real bondage and s/m party in 2008 it all started to come into focus.  It was there that I realized I don't just like to watch others in various forms of discomfort but I revel in it.   However, I do enjoy a particular kind of sadistic play and that's prolonged sessions of pleasure mixed with sensory deprivation and pain.  I love to bind and leave them waiting, to get close to them and inhale their scent, to watch them shake with fear and anticipation to what I will do first.

I also have a major thing for spanking.  I mean serious over the knee spanking or even punishment with my trustworthy riding crop.  Nothing beats the sound of leather on supple flesh except perhaps the sound of wood.

Which makes being married to Cherry awesome as she has a masochistic streak in her and although it's not as strong as I would like, I'm allowed other human play toys to take out my desires on.  Which is doubly fun as she can be very sadistic to those with a sub mentality since she knows what that mindset is like from first hand experience.  I have seen her punch and beat on the chest of girls who are tied up to our bedposts, and finger fuck guys' ass till they moaned in mix of pleasure and agony.

I have made sub guys watch with anal plugs in their ass while I fuck hers while not allowing them to touch their cocks, and then afterwards send them home with orders not to jo.

Recently after a  bit of late night of drinking and watching dirty movies, I took her in the bedroom and fucked her ass repeatedly to intense orgasms.  Then put her on her back, got on top of her, and began to fuck her while choking her, squeezing her nose closed and then kissing her and pushing my tongue deep into her mouth for 20-30 seconds.

She convulsed and squirmed, and begged me to cum and I rewarded her of course.

What I Wanna See

I was just talking to Harry and we were looking at Tumblr. We have recently discovered this site and while I love it immensely and spend a lot of time looking through the plethora of pictures there, I find that I am annoyed by the fabricated beauty sex faces. Now it would seem after my other post that I only like to see beautious people having sex, that is not the case. I only like to fuck aesthetically pleasing people. But I like to see sex raw, not overly made up, not lips pursed as if they had been practicing the perfect "oooohhhhh." The coiffed hair the perfect makeup takes away from my fantasy. No one likes to be sexually lied to..... Most of us hate a faker of orgasms

and yet these models of perfection are re-blogged and re-posted and a mannequin seems way more appropriate and a lot more kinky...

Presents...

I came home and heard a knock on the door. I opened it to have the post lady hand me a package. It had my name on it with no return address, no markings and nothing to give me any impression of where it was from. Of course I opened it up straight away and to my delight someone had the consideration to send me a feeldoe. I ran through the possibilities of who it might be from and my mind settled on "the bitch". He just recently sent a story about how he wanted to be fucked with one before my husband fucked him mercilessly and so on.... I was kind of getting of on the mental visual when my husband arrived home. We got caught up in the mundane, but when Harry finally went into the room, he immediately commented. "So it came, did you get a chance to see it?" Of course the only adult toy I have wanted in a long time, came from the man I want to use it on the most. Once I have broken my connection to the moon I hope to get a chance. Maybe we can post some pics....