The Love Debate

  Last night Harry's lover came by to hang out.  Just like it has been awhile since we have posted it has also been awhile since either of us have had a chance to play.  I have to admit that although I am gradually feeling better about Harry's toy I often have to remind myself to be nice to him because I find him rather dull.  And overdone in bed... You know the lover who is always making extra noise when you really just want to them to shut up and get fucked... Well that's him.  Being the considerate man that he is Harry recently purchased a mouth strap on to remedy that problem.  I will let you know how that goes.
  What I want to talk about however, is the look of love that covers the toys face every time my husband walks in to the room.  He tracks him with his eyes, he gets all mushy and soft.  I've said it before I can be a little bit of a bitch but honestly it makes me want to slap the smitten look off his face.  Harry contends that it is not a look of love however a look of lust.  Ha.... Lust doesn't make you look like a forlorn puppy.  It is hot, its intense, it is take your pants off so I can suck your cock right now.  Lust is not I would settle to have a hug and hold your hand while watch movies.  Here in lies the debate!

What I Wanna See

I was just talking to Harry and we were looking at Tumblr. We have recently discovered this site and while I love it immensely and spend a lot of time looking through the plethora of pictures there, I find that I am annoyed by the fabricated beauty sex faces. Now it would seem after my other post that I only like to see beautious people having sex, that is not the case. I only like to fuck aesthetically pleasing people. But I like to see sex raw, not overly made up, not lips pursed as if they had been practicing the perfect "oooohhhhh." The coiffed hair the perfect makeup takes away from my fantasy. No one likes to be sexually lied to..... Most of us hate a faker of orgasms

and yet these models of perfection are re-blogged and re-posted and a mannequin seems way more appropriate and a lot more kinky...

Hot and Attractive

I have been doing research all day to see what other Bi-sexual couples look like. Most of what I found has been a little appalling. If I were an outsider I would think that almost all bi people are over sized, under aged, unattractive people who use the term bi sexual because they would settle for anyone touching them. Sounds mean I know, but I have been with enough hot bi sexual individuals and couples to know that there is more out there.
We are very picky, me more so than him, about who we allow into our beds. Personality counts for everything but why do people always feel that attractive people must settle for whatever comes their way to get their rocks off. i have been at swinger parties where people have tried to take liberties, people who normally in any other situation would not even have had the courage to speak to me. I sound like a bitch.....
I think that more people would be involved in bi situations if more hot people were admitting that they liked to lick pussy or play with assholes. How many attractive sets of girls have made out with other girls in the club to get attention. The truth is most of them enjoy it. I like to dance up to them and whisper in their ears, "can I finger you some times." I actually have never done it... My husband assures me that most men lose their M4M cherry in the locker room or frat houses. SO why when I go to swinger parties or meet people online they are gross or sexually unattractive? I admit to being the other half of an extremely geeked out couple, but fuck we are hot and deserve to play with people that we feel are hot as well. Oh well that is my rant....

Cherry