If you're a sadist and you know it clap your hands

I'm a sadist and I know it.

For years I wondered why I would get hard when Cherry would cry or become upset.  After I went to my first real bondage and s/m party in 2008 it all started to come into focus.  It was there that I realized I don't just like to watch others in various forms of discomfort but I revel in it.   However, I do enjoy a particular kind of sadistic play and that's prolonged sessions of pleasure mixed with sensory deprivation and pain.  I love to bind and leave them waiting, to get close to them and inhale their scent, to watch them shake with fear and anticipation to what I will do first.

I also have a major thing for spanking.  I mean serious over the knee spanking or even punishment with my trustworthy riding crop.  Nothing beats the sound of leather on supple flesh except perhaps the sound of wood.

Which makes being married to Cherry awesome as she has a masochistic streak in her and although it's not as strong as I would like, I'm allowed other human play toys to take out my desires on.  Which is doubly fun as she can be very sadistic to those with a sub mentality since she knows what that mindset is like from first hand experience.  I have seen her punch and beat on the chest of girls who are tied up to our bedposts, and finger fuck guys' ass till they moaned in mix of pleasure and agony.

I have made sub guys watch with anal plugs in their ass while I fuck hers while not allowing them to touch their cocks, and then afterwards send them home with orders not to jo.

Recently after a  bit of late night of drinking and watching dirty movies, I took her in the bedroom and fucked her ass repeatedly to intense orgasms.  Then put her on her back, got on top of her, and began to fuck her while choking her, squeezing her nose closed and then kissing her and pushing my tongue deep into her mouth for 20-30 seconds.

She convulsed and squirmed, and begged me to cum and I rewarded her of course.

Bar Sinister Los Angeles

Harry and I went out last Saturday night to a place called Bar Sinister.  We had heard that there was going to be a really great Burlesque Dancer performing and thought that it would be hot to check it out.  In my own opinion we have been to several outstanding Fetish- ish parties and this one is not on the hot list.  There were way too many kids and sub attractive people.  See below posts to see how I feel about that.
I saw several plays on domination going on and none of them were compelling.  I want to be stopped and have a intake of breath, instead I stifled several yawns.

The show was great, but almost too short.  The dancer Olivia Bellafontaine that we had come to see was beautiful and fluid.  She was worth the $10 admission.
I only have two more things two rant about....... Why in LA do promoters advertise masquerades when only 1/3 of the attendees wear masks?  And... If you want to take a picture of me that is cool, I dress to be noticed.  But douche bags open your mouth and ask permission first, you are much more likely to get something other than my back.  That is All

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I'm a black guy...and thank god I have a big dick.

I mean who doesn't know this stereotype, is there anyone who hasn't heard, that black guys have big dicks? I mean I have a big dick and I'm black.  By big I mean larger than average actually much larger than average  as average seems pretty small.  Check link to see what I mean penis size.

In wiki the average is somewhere between 5-6.3 inches in length when fully erect and I'm coming in at a solid 8 and some change.  Giving much credence to the stereotype I might add.

I mean....have you ever wondered...what it must be like..for black guys, who don't have big cocks?
Considering the rampant porn, postings, listings, and overall general stereotype on the subject of  BBC(BIG BLACK COCK)the pressure must be immense for those with average cock pieces.  Heavens to mergatroid if you're weighing in as one of those less than average "bruthas".  Fuck! The deep desire to want to feel like you are a sex god with whoever you are sleeping with seems lined in our male dna.  At least for the males that I personally know, see, and the ones that are written and talked about in damn near every culture on the planet.  Seriously though, who doesn't want to feel that they are either sexually dominating the situation or want to feel like their partners are overly satisfied sexually while being with them.

Imagine though, that with black men, the idea is that we are wild sexual animals, with raging, throbbing, gigantic cocks ready to pulverize pussy, gag windpipes, and tear asses apart, generally leaving you in a sexual cum coma.   Awesome right.  If you're into I guess.  How does it feel though?   For that "brutha" on the shorter than average list.  When he hooks up with his first chick.  There she is all stoked and geared up with thoughts racing in her head of  getting her first look, taste and feel of the mythical Alabama black snake and it turns out to be baby earthworm...Now she is having fits of the giggles and he is sexually scarred for life.

What a fucking let down right.  This is what stereotypes create, it's akin to the myth that all tall black guys are great at basketball.  I for one am a tall black guy but I am not great at basketball, shit I can't even dunk how sad is that.  Digressing though, the point of this post to remind us all that we are people too not just sexual objects.  Yes I have a BBC, and yes I will use it to fuck you into a sex coma, male or female mind you.  But that's not all that I am sexually damn it!!  So keep that in mind when letting your fantasies run rampant.

And yes that is my real cock.

When Someone Else Comes To Play

Outside of having the most amazing husband in the world, we also have an incredible fuck friend.  He rarely has sex when he isn't with us, which is incredible and safer.  Last night he was over and we were able to play for the first time in awhile.  I find that it is exhilarating to have two totally different men playing court to my sexual desires and each other's.
Harry finally got to top.  I am so excited that I got to be present for it.  I was sucking our friend off, so I didn't get to actually see it, but the pressure was pretty fucking incredible.  The best part for me is that Harry doesn't let me be violent at all with him.  I always have to find someone else for that.  Whenever we play we always try to bring in someone that is at least a little submissive so that if I want to finger bang or bite their balls, it is not remiss.  I am not allowed to even pinch Harry's nipples, so this is always a novelty.
I am starting my Saturday in sexual bliss.  Lazy cat stretches and rubbing myself against Harry will be the gist of my day.