Miss Kitty's at the Dragonfly

Ha, I don't know exactly what to say about Miss Kitty's come back to LA party.  I have only been to one of her parties before and that was a night that I was really sick.  I can say that I was thoroughly entertained!  Everyone around me seemed to be having a lot of fun.  I had the strange feeling of walking into a den of Nerds and Freaks in costume though.  I think that Miss Kitty and us were the coolest people in attendance.

The music was good and the drink prices were fair, but I could have debauched most of the crowd.  Also I am probably a little bitter because I fell in love with a beautiful submissive woman in a mask, to find out later that she was a unattractive clumsy Dom man. (only in my life)  But I did see a woman give head to a guy in the booth behind us, so I stopped being bitter pretty quickly and became more entertained.

The Great Pussy Eating Debate

My arm didn't really have to be twisted into this discussion.  Without a whole lot of pomp and circumstance I will say first and foremost that just like kissing, girls have pussy eating down pat.  Why?  They pay more attention to what is making their partner happy, they are gentle when they need to be gentle and rough when the need to be rough.  I also think that they tend to produce more saliva.  

I am in very much the same boat as my husband though as I have worked very hard with him in order to get it perfect with him.  He worships eating my pussy and takes his cues well when I am sitting on his face.  Most men however do not know what they are doing.  He always laughs when he watches another man have a go at it, "you didn't get any pleasure from that did you?" 

There have been exceptions like a certain married man we dealt with, but his wife's sexual energy and desires not to mention build were almost identical to mine so I am sure that he had lots of practice, it also helped that he showed so much delight in making me orgasm.  But again my husband and this other woman's husband were exception's.

First is never just blow on the pussy.  And practice makes perfect ;0)

Cherry

The Great Cock Sucking Debate

Who does it better guys or girls?

This has been debated in several circles and is even the topic/subject matter of many porn flicks, although that's not saying much, since what isn't a topic in porn these days.

So after much thought I decided to post my opinion.  Why, you say?  Well being bi and having had the experience of having my cock sucked by men and women I feel it is my duty to weigh in on the matter.

Now if you have read this blog before, you know that I am married to a bi girl. I will convince her to write her own opinion on the who eats pussy better debate. (Although I don't think it's much of a debate as women seem to think hands down women do it better)  But I will convince her to tell her story anyway so this blog has both.

On to the fellatio comparison!!!

Being in my early 30's and having my first sexual experience fairly young at the tender age of 15. I have had over 15 years of having my cock sucked.  Every girl I have ever been with/fucked  has given me head and a few others that I didn't even fuck who were just dying to get a piece of me for some reason and settled for sucking my cock when I refused to fuck them lol.  The funny thing about being with guys is that they seem more into sucking cock just for the sake of doing it where as girls for the most part only do it when you are working towards sex.  Because of this I think I have actually probably had more guys suck my cock than girls since accepting that I was bi.

Over the years I have only had two girls who really enjoyed sucking cock and I married one of them.  And no I didn't marry her because she loves it, but it sure is a fucking bonus.

I will tell you now that for me, if a girl doesn't get off on sucking cock I will not even cum.  She can suck it for a fucking hour till her jaw aches and I will not cum.  Maybe that's just me but that's been my experience.  Outside of my wife I have yet to experience a girl who works my cock to the point of me cumming and leaves me with a body shaking orgasm.

Why is her's so good and the rest of the girls so blah?  Not really sure, I can't put my finger on it outside of the fact that she is doing it for herself not for me.  It makes a huge difference, when she gets into and is moaning because she is enjoying it and I can tell when her mouth is working on my cock that she loves the taste and just wants to suck me till I cum in her mouth.  I'm actually getting hard as I type this and think about it.  She get's it really wet, works the shaft, my balls, and never runs her teeth over it.  It's an amazing experience.  The only downside I would say is that she really can't deep throat repeatedly and face fucking is very rare, but other than that all pluses.  If I was judging girls by the example my wife set's in the cock sucking department the girls would have it.

Unfortunately my wife is very rare in a number of ways so she can't bring it home for the girls.  If I was judging sheer number comparison, all the other girls I have been with, give lack luster blowjobs, most are hardly even worth mentioning or remembering.  It just seems that they are either to afraid to slut out on that cock or maybe they just don't like the taste either way it seems the other girls are just not up to par.  Very forgettable experiences as a whole.

Guy's as I've said before, hands down want to suck cock.  For some, want isn't even the proper word, more like need to suck cock would be better.  Still there are a few stand out qualities that it seems all guy's I have been with share that women in general lack.  The biggest is the ability to deep throat.  Now I'm not a small man, my cock is a solid 8in and pretty thick, enough for more than a mouth/throat full for a man or woman. But hands down 4 out of 5 guys can and will take my cock till they choke on it(a lot don't) and come up asking(the good ones begging) for more.  They also enjoy a bit of rougher play which I enjoy.  From cock slapping, to all out face/throat fucking.  I mean the kind you see in porn, head against the wall, or over the side of the bed throat fucking. 

It's also worth noting that guys will do it without caring if you fuck them or suck them back, all they want is that cock in their mouth and there is something appealing to that in a very selfish way.

So what's this mean in the great debate?  Guys or Girls?

Let's put it like this. 

If you want mouth watering head anyone who loves to do it is going to be the best at it.  Whether guy or girl.

However if you want a varied sucking experience that includes hardcore sucking, I give it to the guys that love the cock.

AND THAT'S WHAT'S UP!

The Good Girl

Why is it that women think that they can make good porn for us women.  I mean, I'm sure there are things that get everyone off, but I would consider The Good Girl fetish porn.  Porn for people who like really bad music and want to be bored during sex.  Twenty minutes turned into an eternity after the first six minutes.  I don't mean to be mean, I never do, but really.  How horrible were those accents and the point of porn is.... dum dum dummm... Sex.  Dirty, grimy kinda beautiful sex.  Not seventeen minutes of grinding with him mainly dressed and three minutes too long of milky white nothing very exciting.
Just saying, Erica Lust should see a sex therapist.  She has major not sexy enough issues and society boosting her ego to quickly has led to unsatisfying  porn movies.